You can give a gift and not be seen as an AFC. It's her birthday, for him to have any connection to her, he has to respect that. He doesn't need to spend much money, it's the thought that counts.Leopold said:
"Hey I remembered you were born on a day, here's something from me to remember."
That's all. Something small, cheap and memorable. Cheaper is better, because why spend money on people who may or may not be worthy? It's too much of a gamble.
