A Way to Send Gifts Without Coming Off As An AFC?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Alle_Gory

Master Don Juan

Jan 11, 2012

Leopold said:
Take it from personal experience.... you only reward women AFTER she meets your expectations!!!

You can give a gift and not be seen as an AFC. It's her birthday, for him to have any connection to her, he has to respect that. He doesn't need to spend much money, it's the thought that counts.

"Hey I remembered you were born on a day, here's something from me to remember."

That's all. Something small, cheap and memorable. Cheaper is better, because why spend money on people who may or may not be worthy? It's too much of a gamble.

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.