"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A Very Unique Situation

Lost Cause

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Wow Ok. This doesn't happen everyday -- or every year.

Me and some friends were at a place called 'Sing Sing'. It's a place where they have dueling piano's playing everything from the beatles to the zebrahead.

So I was there and this group of girls sat down behind us and it was one of there birthdays. So me and a friend went up to the birthday girl and started talking to her. One thing led to another and she asked me where I went to high school. Well I went to a boarding school in a town of 150 people in Montana. She told me that her friend Kristina had gone to school in Montana. Well she was there as well and we hit it off on our uncommon bond.

I talked to her the other night and we set up a date for Wednesday. SHe said OK but she had to find out about her work schedule first. She called me back today and said for me to call her friend (the birthday girl) and we could all go out on Wednesday.

SHE THOUGHT I WAS INTO HER FRIEND AND NOT HER!!!! WHAT THE HELL?

I didn't even get her friends number! She said because she saw us talking before I met her that I was probably into her. And I wasn't.

I decided to be straight forward with her and said "Listen, she's totally cool and a nice girl. But we don't have anything in common. We didn't go to the same damn boarding school. Ya know? I wouldn't of found out about that if I didn't talk to her but on a romantic note I can't date her. So let's go out on wednesday and have a good time. Who knows."

After that she agreed to go on wednesday but I could tell she had some reservations still. I guess her friend likes me and that is always a problem for girls.


What the hell should I do now? Our 2nd time talking and there is already mad ass drama. I'd drop her like a brick but we have something crazy in common.


Adviiice?!?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CyranoDeBergerac

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I have to say you read this wrong. She said you'd all go out, not just you and the B-day girl.

She's still unsure of you (you've only talked to her once, and she might be skeptical) and wants to stay in a social atmosphere as opposed to a romantic one. Either that or her friends interested and she wants to give her one more shot.

No matter what, you go out, have a smashing time and you tell her," You know, you're friends are alright, but I was actually kinda hoping to get to know you a little better." Of course, you should have said that in the first place, but that's just spilled milk.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

Lost Cause

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Yeah but she was already under the impression that me and the b-day girl were into each other. And that was a one way street. She thought that I had gotten her # that night, which I didn't do. It was just a crazy misunderstanding the entire time.

She didn't want her friend to come for social reasons. She seriously thought that we would be together and that I would bring some friends for her to hang out with. That was her idea of thinking.


Now I like this girl but I think the drama so soon already screwed it up. And it shouldn't of happened in the first place!
 
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