"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A very surprising side effect . . .

KarmaSutra

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It's known that I'm type II diabetic and that I'm on Byetta shots to help control it. I also have very high triglycerides (582) last week when I went to see the ol' Doctor for my 3 month checkup. I also take Vytorin and Lysonipril for cholesterol and high blood pressure.

I'm also a bit fat in the ass.

So I've made the commitment to myself, for myself, to eat the best that I can and go to the gym religiously.

What's interesting is that I have never been a fish guy. Hated it. I like crab and lobster but as an everyday it's unrealistic. Talking with my Doctor though he's convinced me that fresh fish is one of the absolute best foods for a man to eat. Very high in protein, low in fat and loaded with Omega 3's and other vitals to the male species.

Here's where it gets really tasty :p

I've been eating fresh tilapia filets for 16 days along with a myriad of vegetables and I've become a sex maniac. Seriously, my libido is in hyperdrive. My erections are much stronger and long lasting, my recovery is that of a 16 year old swedish swimmer and best of all I haven't had any aches and pains for almost a week. I swear Mrs. K is all but locking me in a dog cage to keep me from pawing at her.

Who knew that the fvcking Kodiak bears were right all along!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KontrollerX

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LOL, very nice.

Glad your taking control of your health with full force bro.

Its the best thing any of us can do in life for ourselves.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
It's known that I'm type II diabetic and that I'm on Byetta shots to help control it. I also have very high triglycerides (582) last week when I went to see the ol' Doctor for my 3 month checkup. I also take Vytorin and Lysonipril for cholesterol and high blood pressure.

I'm also a bit fat in the ass.

So I've made the commitment to myself, for myself, to eat the best that I can and go to the gym religiously.

What's interesting is that I have never been a fish guy. Hated it. I like crab and lobster but as an everyday it's unrealistic. Talking with my Doctor though he's convinced me that fresh fish is one of the absolute best foods for a man to eat. Very high in protein, low in fat and loaded with Omega 3's and other vitals to the male species.

Here's where it gets really tasty :p

I've been eating fresh tilapia filets for 16 days along with a myriad of vegetables and I've become a sex maniac. Seriously, my libido is in hyperdrive. My erections are much stronger and long lasting, my recovery is that of a 16 year old swedish swimmer and best of all I haven't had any aches and pains for almost a week. I swear Mrs. K is all but locking me in a dog cage to keep me from pawing at her.

Who knew that the fvcking Kodiak bears were right all along!
Welcome to good health my friend!!

But don't go down the 'fat is bad for you' path. Saturated fat will bost your test levels.
 

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I'm also a bit fat in the ass.
There is your problem right there, my friend.

Post up a diet & workout journal in here and watch the lbs melt off.

I can guarantee you that you're tri. count will go way way down when you take those spare pounds off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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