Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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a UK equivalent???

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Hey,
Is there a UK equivalent of this site/message board. We need something like this to address the different 'game' we have over here.
Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by djay
Hey,
Is there a UK equivalent of this site/message board. We need something like this to address the different 'game' we have over here.
Any thoughts?
In what way is UK culture so different that the same rules don't apply? I mean obviously it has its differences, but I don't see why it needs a whole new forum. A lot of the old PUAs were from places like Australia and Japan. :p
 

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I guess so, it's just that the way to get girls here is to get really pissed in clubs and hope to get lucky or to meet people through friends it seems. We don't really have the same dating 'culture' as you do. I dunno, I could be wrong, I'm just after some discussion on the topic and I wanna go out here and pull more often!
 

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I thought this would surface from that post.

I know what your saying but I think it will send the wrong message.

It's basically giving the excuse, it may work for you, but it won't work for me. I have the perfect excuse I live in the UK. It's not the fact that I believe it would be a waste of time to do approaches as they do in the rest of the world.

You may say, yes but we need to tweak it for british culture/stuck up chicks. I say it still sends a very dangerous message.

There is a hint of truth in it, and that makes it VERY dangerous.

I'm mainly thinking of the wussie newbies who have a hard enough time as it is convincing themselves that this stuff works and can work for them, but they MUST go out and practice it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's true! I know what you mean, and don't get me wrong, I know that the principles on this site work. I used them to great effect on a few girls when I started Uni, one who became my LTR for 2 years. I did, however, meet all of them through friends, or lived with them in halls. I don't think I've ever actually been on a proper 'date' and not many of my friends have. It just goes from meeting through friends, to ****ing I guess!
 

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Originally posted by djay
I guess so, it's just that the way to get girls here is to get really pissed in clubs and hope to get lucky or to meet people through friends it seems. We don't really have the same dating 'culture' as you do. I dunno, I could be wrong, I'm just after some discussion on the topic and I wanna go out here and pull more often!
The key word with the gettign drunk/pissed in clubs and hoping to meet someone is HOPE. Wishing and hoping never got anyone anywhere.

And meeting women through friends is a VERY valid way of hooking up with women in America as well. A mutual acquaintance means that you already have some things in common, or else you wouldn't both be friends with this guy. It also helps get by the "creep factor."
 
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