"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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A tuff fish to catch.(advice)

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hellfire45

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Ok heres whats going on.

Theres this girl at my high school who is very good looking, I'd give her an 8/10. She complains all the time about not having a boyfriend, which amazes me, because this girl is above average on the scale of sex appeal.
Anyway, the problem is that whenever any guys try to approach her, flirt with her, or whatever, she tenses up and closes herself off. To try and explain better, she seems is an average outgoing girl, but whenever you enter the area of dating, or start flirting with her(as I already said), the outgoing turns off, and she begins to become tense. Because of this, several of my friends have been rejected by her.
Shes nice, I like her, but I don't really know how to approach this kind of girl. I don't want to make her scared, and I don't want to call her on the phone(to make her less tense), because I feel like I would look like a coward in her eyes.

I feel like my looks are about an 8, but I don't want to blow my chances, by taking the wrong approach.

What are your thoughts on the matter? And advice, opinions, suggestions?

Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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RaMar

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I don't know why your so scared to call her on the phone. Id say the best way to get with this girl is for her to get to know you better and the way to do that is hang out with her a lot. Talk with her on the phone, etc.
 
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My advice is pretty simple. Take it easy. Don't go over the top, instead of DJing her, try to get to know her. Let her talk about herself, but not about her problems, just strike up an easy, mostly flirting free convo. She just isn't comfortable with that sort of thing, so don't force it upon her. All of my successes involved me making a girl laugh, and getting to know her quickly. I move fast, but I take it easy.
 
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DJ Alejandro

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like they said. take it easy.

i remember a post saying that not all techniques work on a particular woman cuz every technique only works for a certain ratio ike 60-70% or sumthn like that.

maybe she's the exception. you've got to remember that maybe the reason why she rejected them was that:

1.) she wanted YOU to realize that she's hot. maybe she's just waiting for you. there's alwayz a chance.

2.) those guys may or may have not been players but ur a DJ. slowly but surely. not too slow tho.

im speaking basing on experience. :cool:
 
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