"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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a Trust Test

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here is a good test you can do on your woman to determine if she trusts you.

Brake really late when you drive but don't jerk the car. If you have a girl that trusts you and knows that your are the man she won't complain or get worried.

I've went on a lot of dates and I've done this just about every time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you'll just seem reckless / irresponsable. I dont like it.
 

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Sounds like showing off to me. Kids stuff.
 

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i dissagree with both you. Perhaps you should try it. You don't even have to be reckless about it.

It is good to be picky . From my perspective if a woman is worth anything she will trust you with her life.

I discovered this when a girl i was with complained about it. I was just breaking my usuall way (not recklessly at all) and she *****ed. She even started to give me driving directions.

These girls are not worth it. When they start to tell you how to drive it is a good sign that they want to be in control and that they are afriad to let you lead them in the way you want to.
 

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oh and I have another story about driving.

I set up a date with a cute skiny blonde girl one day and she asked me to bring a friend along. I said maybe and did no such thing. I went myself and picked them both up . When I was driving and I came to a T intersection with a red lite and no cars.. I just said to myself. **** it..and i went right through the red lite. The blonde girl was shocked and couldn't belive that i did that. But her cute little friend in my back seat wet her panties. She was like,"oh guys are like that" and smiled at me with a sexy grin.

When we got to the club the girl in the back was all over me. I was a bad boy and she loved it. i played that night and I was happy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ya I duno about this one :p

IM sorry but if a girl complains because you jammed your breaks it doesent mean she doesent trust you it just means shes annoyed at you not looking where you are going.
 

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Originally posted by Skel
Ya I duno about this one :p

IM sorry but if a girl complains because you jammed your breaks it doesent mean she doesent trust you it just means shes annoyed at you not looking where you are going.

i didn't jam my breaks at all. that would be reckless.... I slowed down quickly there is a big difference. that is wha tI ment.

some people need to actually read the post on this board. They make comments about things that were never posted
 

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I have a friend who drives safe, but very fast and furious. I feel 100% safe with him, even when he drank a bit and drives fast.
The girls that ride with us, some find it funny, some get afraid but have fun, some kinda panic. It all depends on their personality, the knowledge of the driver or the friends you're with in the car, and the amount of alchohol you drink.
 

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Let me be the 20th person in this thread to say its dumb......


Any girl with half a brain wouldn't be impressed by some moron acting stupid in a car...(so you run redlights with girls and friends in the back seat...no respect)

I've lost family members in auto accidents that could have been prevented...Be safe when you drive, you can a badboy, without being a moron.....

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Firstly, she probably doesnt wanna embarass you or herself by saying something. Definitely an UNCOMFORTABLE moment.

Secondly, you can test a girl just by using your hands.
 
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