"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I was at my friend's house, watching a DVD, when his girlfriend calls. She's crying on the phone, saying she had cheated on him, had feelings for another guy, etc etc.

My friend goes "Sorry to hear that", then hangs up on her, calls up a girl from work, and sets up a date for the same night!

That's one hell of a way to react to a breakup :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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5 bucks says he did it partially to hide getting hurt and because you were there... I'm not a pansie but no matter how tough you are it's gonna hurt if it's a relationship. LOL sorry to be pessimistic.
 
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COOL!!!! Great way to react and if he can keep this up, I reckon she'll be begging for him back in no time. IF he can keep it up! (although a DJ wouldn't take her back of course!)

I agree with Syncmaster that he is hiding his true feelings and it's natural to be upset, but it's still the ideal reaction.
 
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hey may be hiding his feelings, but why point it out? because its something you would do? give the man credit, he accepted the fact that it happened without question and carried on with himself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It is what it is!

Originally posted by duttylove
hey may be hiding his feelings, but why point it out? because its something you would do? give the man credit, he accepted the fact that it happened without question and carried on with himself.
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Bravo reply!!!

Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to proceed despite it!
 
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They had been dating for a few months (cant remember, maybe 4 or 5).

Yes he was upset, and he did look realy hurt on the phone, but he's the kind of guy who accepts what life throws at him and moves on.

In my opinion acceptance is the healthiest emotion (within limits of course!). Definitely better than most guys, who would mope around the house for weeks, wondering what they did wrong.
 
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