"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I was at my friend's house, watching a DVD, when his girlfriend calls. She's crying on the phone, saying she had cheated on him, had feelings for another guy, etc etc.

My friend goes "Sorry to hear that", then hangs up on her, calls up a girl from work, and sets up a date for the same night!

That's one hell of a way to react to a breakup :crackup:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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5 bucks says he did it partially to hide getting hurt and because you were there... I'm not a pansie but no matter how tough you are it's gonna hurt if it's a relationship. LOL sorry to be pessimistic.
 
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COOL!!!! Great way to react and if he can keep this up, I reckon she'll be begging for him back in no time. IF he can keep it up! (although a DJ wouldn't take her back of course!)

I agree with Syncmaster that he is hiding his true feelings and it's natural to be upset, but it's still the ideal reaction.
 
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hey may be hiding his feelings, but why point it out? because its something you would do? give the man credit, he accepted the fact that it happened without question and carried on with himself.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It is what it is!

Originally posted by duttylove
hey may be hiding his feelings, but why point it out? because its something you would do? give the man credit, he accepted the fact that it happened without question and carried on with himself.
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Bravo reply!!!

Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to proceed despite it!
 
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They had been dating for a few months (cant remember, maybe 4 or 5).

Yes he was upset, and he did look realy hurt on the phone, but he's the kind of guy who accepts what life throws at him and moves on.

In my opinion acceptance is the healthiest emotion (within limits of course!). Definitely better than most guys, who would mope around the house for weeks, wondering what they did wrong.
 
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