"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A tough one to get a hold of.

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This girl may be playing hard to get, what do you think?

So this girl is really hot, and I can't seem to get her to go out, but I know she wants to.

We've known each other for a few years, but not close. Anyways, I texted her finally about 2 weeks ago,we texted quite a bit that evening, and I tried to set up lunch after, twice, with no success. The first time, she slept through the entire day, and barely texted me or anything. Then I tried again the next day and I didn't get a text the whole day. Both times it was only a "possibility" to go to lunch, so yeah maybe it didn't work out for her, but I decided to do NC since then since I feel blown off. Got a text on the 4th day saying only "hi." Didn't respond.

Now should I wait for another response? Or should I give it another chance and text her first?

Any other tips? I could just forget about it, but I know it'll be easy once I get past this stupid first part, and I'd say she's worth it.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thegoodstuff said:
So this girl is really hot, and I can't seem to get her to go out, but I know she wants to.

We've known each other for a few years, but not close. Anyways, I texted her finally about 2 weeks ago,we texted quite a bit that evening, and I tried to set up lunch after, twice, with no success. The first time, she slept through the entire day, and barely texted me or anything. Then I tried again the next day and I didn't get a text the whole day. Both times it was only a "possibility" to go to lunch, so yeah maybe it didn't work out for her, but I decided to do NC since then since I feel blown off. Got a text on the 4th day saying only "hi." Didn't respond.

Now should I wait for another response? Or should I give it another chance and text her first?

Any other tips? I could just forget about it, but I know it'll be easy once I get past this stupid first part, and I'd say she's worth it.
man **** textin...I literally just told a girl tonight...I get so many texts sometimes I just get sick of em and delete them all. I straight up told her call me if she wants to actually talk.

It's k if it's like a quick text or two...but you figure she texts all day back and forth with all her little girl friends and some afcs trying to get in her pants to.

I think actual quick conversations on the phone are best.

If she's as hot as you say...you're probably down on her list some where buddy.....if she had a real good IL, she wouldn't be flakin on you like this. She would be opening up her next available day just for you!!!

For instance I hit up a girl last night...(actually called none of that textin back and forth **** c'mon most of us aren't prepubescent teens anymore) I'm like what's up hun blah blah blah, lets go out tomorrow. she had plans with her friend but immediately after she say's I'm free for you all day tuesday.

I'm like game on :)

I would say make one last phone call, dominate the conversation. Name the place time, she says some other day, say no I'm busy that day and get something that works for you...she flakes again/makes up an excuse...move on find some more tail. This ones wasting your precious time
 

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Fvck yeah you said it. Yeah I had already dropped it, but the random text made me think again. Okay I will call her and push my dyck through the phone into her mouth.
 
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