"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A tough one to get a hold of.

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This girl may be playing hard to get, what do you think?

So this girl is really hot, and I can't seem to get her to go out, but I know she wants to.

We've known each other for a few years, but not close. Anyways, I texted her finally about 2 weeks ago,we texted quite a bit that evening, and I tried to set up lunch after, twice, with no success. The first time, she slept through the entire day, and barely texted me or anything. Then I tried again the next day and I didn't get a text the whole day. Both times it was only a "possibility" to go to lunch, so yeah maybe it didn't work out for her, but I decided to do NC since then since I feel blown off. Got a text on the 4th day saying only "hi." Didn't respond.

Now should I wait for another response? Or should I give it another chance and text her first?

Any other tips? I could just forget about it, but I know it'll be easy once I get past this stupid first part, and I'd say she's worth it.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thegoodstuff said:
So this girl is really hot, and I can't seem to get her to go out, but I know she wants to.

We've known each other for a few years, but not close. Anyways, I texted her finally about 2 weeks ago,we texted quite a bit that evening, and I tried to set up lunch after, twice, with no success. The first time, she slept through the entire day, and barely texted me or anything. Then I tried again the next day and I didn't get a text the whole day. Both times it was only a "possibility" to go to lunch, so yeah maybe it didn't work out for her, but I decided to do NC since then since I feel blown off. Got a text on the 4th day saying only "hi." Didn't respond.

Now should I wait for another response? Or should I give it another chance and text her first?

Any other tips? I could just forget about it, but I know it'll be easy once I get past this stupid first part, and I'd say she's worth it.
man **** textin...I literally just told a girl tonight...I get so many texts sometimes I just get sick of em and delete them all. I straight up told her call me if she wants to actually talk.

It's k if it's like a quick text or two...but you figure she texts all day back and forth with all her little girl friends and some afcs trying to get in her pants to.

I think actual quick conversations on the phone are best.

If she's as hot as you say...you're probably down on her list some where buddy.....if she had a real good IL, she wouldn't be flakin on you like this. She would be opening up her next available day just for you!!!

For instance I hit up a girl last night...(actually called none of that textin back and forth **** c'mon most of us aren't prepubescent teens anymore) I'm like what's up hun blah blah blah, lets go out tomorrow. she had plans with her friend but immediately after she say's I'm free for you all day tuesday.

I'm like game on :)

I would say make one last phone call, dominate the conversation. Name the place time, she says some other day, say no I'm busy that day and get something that works for you...she flakes again/makes up an excuse...move on find some more tail. This ones wasting your precious time
 

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Fvck yeah you said it. Yeah I had already dropped it, but the random text made me think again. Okay I will call her and push my dyck through the phone into her mouth.
 
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