A tough nut to crack

[sickness]

OK, I'm just going to cut straight to the chase: there is this girl at school that I have been flirting around with quite a bit. We aren't going out, but some people thought we were just because we bag on each other so much, and I know she's attracted to me.
The problem is, she recently went to a "purity retreat" (she's the religious type), and one of my friends told me that she said that after going to this retreat, she said that she would "never date anyone" (not in high school anyway), and that she "doens't want a relationship". She has been totally ignoring me (but no other guys) for the past few days.
So, you guys have any suggestions as to what the HELL I need to do?!

 

[S1NN3R]

What to do? Move on. Have some self-respect left in the end instead of beating yourself up because you can't bang the bible-thumper.

 

[sickness]

I at least wanted to try to do something before moving on, you know?

 

[S1NN3R]

She's not doing anything with you due to religious reasons, and trying to get her to go against those beliefs is a waste of time. A) you should respect her choice, B) religious people are nutters who don't listen to sense. Again, move on.

So many guys sift through half-indicators and possible clues to try to find out if a girl is interested in them. You are being told flat out, she doesn't want to date you, she doesn't want a relationship of any sorts with you, and she's ignoring you exclusive of other guys.

WALK. THE. ****. AWAY.

 

[WC2]

I have a little story from when i was in highschool that might entice you. I was once on the same page as you, flirting with one of the most beautiful girls at my highschool. After a few days of flirting and hanging out a bit, she immediately turned her head the other direction. I thought this was the end of the world. Then it hit me. She didn't turn away cause she wasn' t interested, she turned away cause she was so dissapointed in how she was letting herself fall for me, that she went into a state of denial.

So what did I do? I decided that I'd give it a break for a week or two and move onto other girls, while still keeping her in the back of my mind.

Result? I ended up falling in love with the girl a few weeks later when she approached me and told me how much she missed talking to me. Bottom line is sometimes girls feel insecure about themselves when they give themselves up too much to guys.

Good news is these girls are the most enjoyable when it comes to relationships, cause you know they have self-confidence to keep your relationship alive.

So step away, and let her know you're willing to live your life without her.

 

[sickness]

Thanks, man. I'll give it a try.

 

[Docs]

Then it hit me. She didn't turn away cause she wasn' t interested, she turned away cause she was so dissapointed in how she was letting herself fall for me, that she went into a state of denial.
Glad you realized, 90% would have shut off.