"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A tip on how to approach women!

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You know what I got a great idea,many people say have CONFIDENCE which is true.But when approaching a women be in a good,goofy mood seriously if you approach a women in a mood where your happy,silly she will feel a good vibe and feel as your some fun guy and you will feel relaxed and not nervous.So will the girl she will be comfortable,so what im saying is MOOD is important.I mean if you walk in the mall in a bad mood or depressed mood,how will it seem when you approach a girl?Awkward and she will most likely feel the weirdness,plus if your in a weird,uncomfortable,bad mood you wont even be able to approach A GIRL!Because in your mind all these thoughts of is everyone wacthing me or your afraid of the girl!So when approaching a girl or going to the mall or yet alone anywhere be relaxed,and be in a good mood,as for confidence it will come naturaly.Reember here are important things when OUT IN PUBLIC OR APPROACHING A GIRL:

1.)Be relaxed
2.)Be in a good mood
3.)Feel comfortable,if you dont then when approaching it will be awkward
4.)Now as for confidence it will eventually come naturaly after you got the first 3 steps,and as for what to say or talk about just feel the vibe,if your relaxed then let it be natural,say whatever is in your mind,relax then all of suddenly you will notice your talking to the girl NATURALY!!!Without no worries!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oooh yeah and be comfortable,seriously when your comfortable or relaxed in public or approaching a girl,then you will most likey get her number!Seriously along time ago I was the creepiest person ever,when I approach a girl it was soo awkward,she even felt it.But after taking time off this site,I learned be comfortable,so now you even say to a random girl hey baby give me your number!It might work because if the vibe is good,comfortableness and relaxion is good then you have no problem at all.See all these DJ tips are useless if your not comfortable and relaxed.
 
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Reloaded said:
This is the kind of thing some members were talking about on this site. An AFC giving advice on how to approach women! He even repeatedly admits how pathetic he is!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083
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Another memeber here tying to put another memeber down.Well actually all I was going crazy over her,but how did I get the girl in the first place?By using the advice I posted,well and read my name carrfully it says dreamx_NOTAFC which clearly states im not a AFC,all though I used to be,but its called THE PAST!
 
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"Tying"? Getting her is half the battle, keeping here is the rest! You've got some learning to do, you AFC chump! And as someone already mentioned, your name is the exact opposite of the truth.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Tying"? Getting her is half the battle, keeping here is the rest! You've got some learning to do, you AFC chump! And as someone already mentioned, your name is the exact opposite of the truth.
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Ok dont post on MY THREAD,if you dont understand it,all im posting is how TO APPROACH A GIRL!Not getting her i didnt post tips on how to keep her you idiot,all im posting is how to approach a women simple as that,the other battle is something i didnt post.
 
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I'll post on any damn thread I want! What are you going to do about it, dreamxhenry_theAFC?
 
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I'll post on any damn thread I want! What are you going to do about it, dreamyhenry_theAFC?
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Its funny how you keep posting my old thread on every post or thread I post I notice everytime I give advice you try to bring me down by posting my old thread,when its clearly called:THE PAST!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is my best approach so far untill i find something better:

*See Girl i like

*approaches
Me: Hey, Whats your name?
Her: <Insert Name>
Me: You know what? I'm kinda in a hurry right now and i would like to talk to you again. Give me a number i could reach you at?
Her: <Insert Number>
Me: So its <Insert number with the 4th digit wrong>? (I do this to see if the number is fake or not)
Her: No its <Insert Number with corrected 4th digit> If its a fake number she would say "Yes thats my number"
Me: Alright thx .... *Goes home or go to where ever i was heading...
 
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