"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A tip on how to approach women!

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You know what I got a great idea,many people say have CONFIDENCE which is true.But when approaching a women be in a good,goofy mood seriously if you approach a women in a mood where your happy,silly she will feel a good vibe and feel as your some fun guy and you will feel relaxed and not nervous.So will the girl she will be comfortable,so what im saying is MOOD is important.I mean if you walk in the mall in a bad mood or depressed mood,how will it seem when you approach a girl?Awkward and she will most likely feel the weirdness,plus if your in a weird,uncomfortable,bad mood you wont even be able to approach A GIRL!Because in your mind all these thoughts of is everyone wacthing me or your afraid of the girl!So when approaching a girl or going to the mall or yet alone anywhere be relaxed,and be in a good mood,as for confidence it will come naturaly.Reember here are important things when OUT IN PUBLIC OR APPROACHING A GIRL:

1.)Be relaxed
2.)Be in a good mood
3.)Feel comfortable,if you dont then when approaching it will be awkward
4.)Now as for confidence it will eventually come naturaly after you got the first 3 steps,and as for what to say or talk about just feel the vibe,if your relaxed then let it be natural,say whatever is in your mind,relax then all of suddenly you will notice your talking to the girl NATURALY!!!Without no worries!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oooh yeah and be comfortable,seriously when your comfortable or relaxed in public or approaching a girl,then you will most likey get her number!Seriously along time ago I was the creepiest person ever,when I approach a girl it was soo awkward,she even felt it.But after taking time off this site,I learned be comfortable,so now you even say to a random girl hey baby give me your number!It might work because if the vibe is good,comfortableness and relaxion is good then you have no problem at all.See all these DJ tips are useless if your not comfortable and relaxed.
 
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Reloaded said:
This is the kind of thing some members were talking about on this site. An AFC giving advice on how to approach women! He even repeatedly admits how pathetic he is!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=105083
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Another memeber here tying to put another memeber down.Well actually all I was going crazy over her,but how did I get the girl in the first place?By using the advice I posted,well and read my name carrfully it says dreamx_NOTAFC which clearly states im not a AFC,all though I used to be,but its called THE PAST!
 
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"Tying"? Getting her is half the battle, keeping here is the rest! You've got some learning to do, you AFC chump! And as someone already mentioned, your name is the exact opposite of the truth.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Tying"? Getting her is half the battle, keeping here is the rest! You've got some learning to do, you AFC chump! And as someone already mentioned, your name is the exact opposite of the truth.
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Ok dont post on MY THREAD,if you dont understand it,all im posting is how TO APPROACH A GIRL!Not getting her i didnt post tips on how to keep her you idiot,all im posting is how to approach a women simple as that,the other battle is something i didnt post.
 
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I'll post on any damn thread I want! What are you going to do about it, dreamxhenry_theAFC?
 
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I'll post on any damn thread I want! What are you going to do about it, dreamyhenry_theAFC?
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Its funny how you keep posting my old thread on every post or thread I post I notice everytime I give advice you try to bring me down by posting my old thread,when its clearly called:THE PAST!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is my best approach so far untill i find something better:

*See Girl i like

*approaches
Me: Hey, Whats your name?
Her: <Insert Name>
Me: You know what? I'm kinda in a hurry right now and i would like to talk to you again. Give me a number i could reach you at?
Her: <Insert Number>
Me: So its <Insert number with the 4th digit wrong>? (I do this to see if the number is fake or not)
Her: No its <Insert Number with corrected 4th digit> If its a fake number she would say "Yes thats my number"
Me: Alright thx .... *Goes home or go to where ever i was heading...
 
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