"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A tip for the young guys to get great BJs

Jay Jay

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"I've never had a good BJ." I used to say that a bit.

Girls that know they are good at this will happily take up the challenge.

The first time I said that it was true.

"sooooo, you've never had a good bj?" a beautiful girl said to me later that night.

Every time I said that after was a lie. :eek:

Its not a seduction technique. It won't make a girl take the intiative, you will still have to get the ball rolling. But if the girl is somewhat talented they will get very excited about being the first girl to totally blow you(r mind).

It kind of loses its effecitveness somewhere in your early twenties and you just get funny looks.

JJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jay Jay said:
"I've never had a good BJ." I used to say that a bit.

Girls that know they are good at this will happily take up the challenge.

The first time I said that it was true.

"sooooo, you've never had a good bj?" a beautiful girl said to me later that night.

Every time I said that after was a lie. :eek:

Its not a seduction technique. It won't make a girl take the intiative, you will still have to get the ball rolling. But if the girl is somewhat talented they will get very excited about being the first girl to totally blow you(r mind).

It kind of loses its effecitveness somewhere in your early twenties and you just get funny looks.

JJ
Haha awesome, im 15.

I might try that sometime.
 

So pimp its scary

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lol... it's funny because that got me thinking of some of the crazy shyt that i've got away with saying to a girl in my bed...

"Hey, it's not gonna suck itself."
"Suck me off right now"
"By the time you finish giving me a Bj I'll have forgiven you."
etc
 

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Yeah, good tip. I've done the same thing (saying it truthfully and having the girls take up the challenge)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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