"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a tip about the bad and good girls.

frivolousz21

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last night I was watching yes dear.

these parents have a 10 yr old boy..who has his first date.


well anyways his mom tells him to do what an AFC would do.

and she ends up using him and taking advantage of him.
when dad sees this..he is pissed and tells him to do the opposite

the worse you treat them..the more they want you.

it worked.


so later the kid is at school.

his dad was sent there by his mom to stop him from being a jerk...

he is there and has 6 girls at his table....

accross from him there is one table with 1 girl.

the boy likes that girl but she doesnt respond to him being a jerk.

the dad says..well some girls with high self esteem and self worth and self respect...wont repsond to it.

so the boy goes back to his table and takes a cookie over to her and gives it to her..and she repsonds to him..and she gives him a brownie and they start laughing and talking.


moral of the story:

when he was a nice guy he got used
when he was a jerk he got women, not the women he wanted
when he was a man he got the great women.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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and greg is a pyssy sometimes...
and other times hes not..wierd guy

but the other guy is cool as shyt...
 

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Nice Post Frivolous
 
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