"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

a tip about the bad and good girls.

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
last night I was watching yes dear.

these parents have a 10 yr old boy..who has his first date.


well anyways his mom tells him to do what an AFC would do.

and she ends up using him and taking advantage of him.
when dad sees this..he is pissed and tells him to do the opposite

the worse you treat them..the more they want you.

it worked.


so later the kid is at school.

his dad was sent there by his mom to stop him from being a jerk...

he is there and has 6 girls at his table....

accross from him there is one table with 1 girl.

the boy likes that girl but she doesnt respond to him being a jerk.

the dad says..well some girls with high self esteem and self worth and self respect...wont repsond to it.

so the boy goes back to his table and takes a cookie over to her and gives it to her..and she repsonds to him..and she gives him a brownie and they start laughing and talking.


moral of the story:

when he was a nice guy he got used
when he was a jerk he got women, not the women he wanted
when he was a man he got the great women.

:)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

frivolousz21

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 11, 2004
Messages
3,151
Reaction score
16
Age
44
Location
belleville, il
and greg is a pyssy sometimes...
and other times hes not..wierd guy

but the other guy is cool as shyt...
 

Austizzle

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 27, 2003
Messages
178
Reaction score
0
Age
40
Location
Michigan!
Nice Post Frivolous
 
Top