Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A timid WINGMAN can ruin your night out

rakishness

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RUN far away from the timid wingman. If the guys you're going out with are scared to approach....it's gonna hurt ur game. Emotions are infectious. If your wing/wings feel FEAR....so will you.

TIMID WINGS-->NO PHONE NUMBERS-->NO ONS'S-->WASTED NIGHT--> WASTED MONEY
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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r0cky

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Everybody starts somewhere, he probably thinks YOU are the bad wing for not helping him be more involved in the convo. And if anything, a timid wing shouldn't ruin your game because you have the strong frame, plus you have the option of not introducing him to the set. If im stuck with a bad wing I just dont introduce him to the set, or if i do, he wont talk so how is that going to hurt me?. The only bad wing is the socially inept who embarasses you.
 

rakishness

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Noob said:
gotta agree, but you could always force him to approach, ask him if you can borrow 10 bucks, and say im only gonna give you this back if you approach - or else im keepin it.

i agree with you, a good wingman can be the difference between getting laid, and not getting laid..

but you gotta remember that people go out sarging alone all the time, so a wingman isnt EVERYTHING..
Yeah. I think the most important thing is to approach anyway. Or find better wings. I almost never go out alone for night game but sarge alone for day game.
 

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I couldn't agree more on this... a few of the friends i go out with are quite timid, and trying to use them as wingmen just doesn't go over well and has ruined my night in the past.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ready123

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you shouldn't be drawing state from your wing anyway

and if you're blaming and sht-talking your wing for keeping you from pulling, he's probably saying the same things about you, blaming you for ruining his night
 
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