"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A timid WINGMAN can ruin your night out

rakishness

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RUN far away from the timid wingman. If the guys you're going out with are scared to approach....it's gonna hurt ur game. Emotions are infectious. If your wing/wings feel FEAR....so will you.

TIMID WINGS-->NO PHONE NUMBERS-->NO ONS'S-->WASTED NIGHT--> WASTED MONEY
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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r0cky

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Everybody starts somewhere, he probably thinks YOU are the bad wing for not helping him be more involved in the convo. And if anything, a timid wing shouldn't ruin your game because you have the strong frame, plus you have the option of not introducing him to the set. If im stuck with a bad wing I just dont introduce him to the set, or if i do, he wont talk so how is that going to hurt me?. The only bad wing is the socially inept who embarasses you.
 

rakishness

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Noob said:
gotta agree, but you could always force him to approach, ask him if you can borrow 10 bucks, and say im only gonna give you this back if you approach - or else im keepin it.

i agree with you, a good wingman can be the difference between getting laid, and not getting laid..

but you gotta remember that people go out sarging alone all the time, so a wingman isnt EVERYTHING..
Yeah. I think the most important thing is to approach anyway. Or find better wings. I almost never go out alone for night game but sarge alone for day game.
 

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I couldn't agree more on this... a few of the friends i go out with are quite timid, and trying to use them as wingmen just doesn't go over well and has ruined my night in the past.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ready123

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you shouldn't be drawing state from your wing anyway

and if you're blaming and sht-talking your wing for keeping you from pulling, he's probably saying the same things about you, blaming you for ruining his night
 
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