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A thread to post your gym approaches

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thought i would start this thread for any Don Juans who have the balls to do gym approaches

My current gym is in a prime student area and tends to have a lot of chicks 20-25 in it

Some of them are genuine 8/9's especially with how much girls train their Bootys these days , after a lot of deliberation i decided i was doing myself a disservice by not trying to open them up

Since the turn of the new year i have approached around 7 girls in the gym , very mixed levels of interest and i have kept it very light hearted with the intention of trying to build up a little familiarity with the ones i liked

I feel like in an environment like the gym if you go straight in for the number and she blows you out its just gonna be hella awkward every time you see her

None the less I did 4 approaches today ,

One HB 7.5 probably like 22/23 very nice body appeared to enter my training zone had never seen her before , i asked her if she minded if we shared a machine she was on in between sets

She seemed fine with this , we did a couple of sets together and i asked her about her training , if she was new here etc

Ill admit It wasn't the smoothest conversation i've ever had , she seemed a bit nervous which was making me nervous lol

I quickly got the vibe she didn't want to talk anymore so i made my excuses and left before it got weird.

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After that i am in the stretching area and 3 young chicks appear these are no older than 21 and were clearly gym novices

they were struggling with a piece of equipment and I caught One brunette HB 7 in the group giving me puppy dog eyes so i went over to help , showed them a couple of exercises as well

This was a lot smoother they were all very submissive towards me and they all thanked me for the help

If i see this group or HB 7 again i will definitely dial up the tempo and get the number
 

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Last week a HB 6.5 again wondered into my training zone , run the same routine " you mind if we share sets"

HB 6.5 although a little nervous at first was quicker to open up and gave me a lot more to work with eventually i had her laughing , she told me she was working at a national coffee chain and to drop by sometime i don't think i found her attractive enough to pursue though

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week before that HB 7 and HB 6 actually approach me to ask to share the machine i of course agreed , both easy to talk too conversation flowed smoothly HB 7 told me she had BF but actually ended up flirting with me so i don't know about that one :rofl:
 

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Overall i am enjoying this process , it is nerve racking to begin with as some of these girls are in actually insane shape its difficult to remain composed even with the experience i have under my belt

But I spend a lot of money on top of the range gym wear and i am in good shape so i know i am not batting completely out of my league

Been mainly targeting HB7's to begin with as i know they are probably slightly beneath my own SMV and i can build up both confidence and my routine ,

soon i am going to start moving onto the real baddies and see if i can actually bag & tag one.

IF you go to the gym get busy fellas i wanna hear about your work .
 

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Gym very quiet today so nothing really to approach

Just as i was starting my session a really fit HB8 came to do stretches next to me probably about 20-21

she had perfect (.)(.) and a$$ ,

i caught her checking me out a couple of times in the mirror and really should have opened her but just wasn't fired up enough

I'll take the L there ......

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After the gym i go to the library to do some work , there's a cute brunette HB7 probably around 30 sitting on the floor she glances up and smiles at me

I take this as an IOI so sit at a table near her

Within about 20 mins she comes to sit by me , i open her up smoothly she's very smiley / happy and playing with her hair so i know she's attracted

She couldn't wait to tell me about her job title which was a very long winded corporate title that i didn't care about but i think she was trying to impress me with it

I then inadvertently caught her lying about something in her role i didn't make a big deal out of it but she clocked on and got a little embarrassed / ashamed and completely closed up

I asked her what she was doing after the library , but she didn't give me much

I left it at that , she said she goes to the library every Friday so maybe i will see her again

She did come back to me just before she left and said " was lovely to meet you"
 

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Honestly, I have nothing to add to this.

When I went to the gym it was 100% pure business. No talking. No wasted time. No sharing resources. I had very strict rest periods between sets and exercises some of which required me to get to different parts of the gym to execute. People used to actively move out of my way when they saw me coming, they knew I wasn't there to play. Full workout was done while wearing a 60lb weighted vest.

I certainly had no time to try and pick up women.

My approach isn't for everyone but it was highly effective.
 
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I ain't rocking up there just to approach

I'm there anyway but theres fit birds i genuinely find very attractive so it defies all logic to just ignore them
Honestly, I have nothing to add to this.

When I went to the gym it was 100% pure business. No talking. No wasted time. No sharing resources. I had very strict rest periods between sets and exercises some of which required me to get to different parts of the gym to execute. People used to actively move out of my way when they saw me coming, they knew I wasn't there to play.

I certainly had no time to try and pick up women.

My approach isn't for everyone but it was highly effective.

There is a weird culture around socialising in the gym and you do need to be street smart with it , but it definitely isn't tabooed
 

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I agree, I'm there for business. If I waste 10-15 minutes I throw off my workout and I'll probably be late for work (I'm a morning gym person).

Though it WAS tempting with the 20-something girl in there today with the shirt that said "I ♥ HOT DADS.”
 

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I agree, I'm there for business. If I waste 10-15 minutes I throw off my workout and I'll probably be late for work (I'm a morning gym person).

Though it WAS tempting with the 20-something girl in there today with the shirt that said "I ♥ HOT DADS.”
She’s not wearing that shirt to NOT get attention. Which is also something I do on occasion just to be a little more social. I have a shirt that says “All Pain. Zero Gains” just for laughs because I am a big guy. But as far as approaching women, na. I may do a fist bump here and there but ultimately it’s known I’m not there to socialize. However it doesn’t open the possibility of ever running into one of them outside the gym and she’ll know I’m not a douche.
 

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Though it WAS tempting with the 20-something girl in there today with the shirt that said "I ♥ HOT DADS.”
Again given you are in your 50's it would be stupid not to have approached her literally so many funny one liners you could comment on about that
 

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No gym this weekend hit it really hard last week and muscles were tired plus i had work to do saturday

In the evening i went out to meet 2 mates

One was a new guy i haven't know long my other friend ended up going home early but we stayed out

It was very busy out because of the rugby on in the UK at the moment

I spot two chicks on their own at a table in rugby shirts Blonde HB 7 and Brunette HB 6

Man this opener was golden ......

We get a table near them and i tell my mate to go and order at the bar and i get up go over to the girls and say "hey can you watch our stuff for a second"

Go to the bar and tell my mate to wait , i am watching the table from the bar and sure enough a group of people wonder over near our table

I go back to the girls and i say " ah dam girls you failed the mission pointing at the other people " they both immediately start apologising

I said " ah well we will just have to come and sit with you guys now"

They liked this and from there i was just on fvcking fire

I target the blonde HB 7 she melts quickly for me , touching my arm laughing at everything i say and is even showing me pics of her in lingerie on her phone and she did look fit

My mate was struggling with the HB6 but was doing his best lol and kept her occupied

We are with them probably for around an hour , i can feel the overall tempo of the set dropping so i decide to wrap it up before it burns out

I get two kisses off HB 7 and her number she says text me later

Go to another bar and i'm getting hit on left right and centre IDK wtf is going on , im sitting down minding my own business next thing a HB6 literally jumps on top of me starts rubbing my beard and telling me she was horny and wants to fvck

I rub her pu$$y for a bit under the table and she was moaning in my ear lol , was thinking about taking her back for an easy lay , but then my mate text me saying do not go back with her she is way too drunk

I took the warning and left

Overall A great night for my confidence going to carry it into next week
 

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I do gym approaches and got the skills for doing that smoothly, but my problem is ghostings afterwards. There's good connection during the approach, but for some reason I get ghosted. I think the problem is a follower count of 72 on IG (on fb I got about thousand, but people rarely use it these days). Gotta chat up more people to add. Sigh.
 

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I do gym approaches and got the skills for doing that smoothly, but my problem is ghostings afterwards. There's good connection during the approach, but for some reason I get ghosted. I think the problem is a follower count of 72 on IG (on fb I got about thousand, but people rarely use it these days). Gotta chat up more people to add. Sigh.

You are probably going too hard too quickly , you do not ask for personal details the first time you talk to her in an environment like the gym it just comes off as wierd and desperate

Just introduce yourself , chat briefly and leave .

The next time you see her say Hi, chat a bit more

With gym girls its all about building familarity, like you shouldn't be asking for number or instagram until you've spoken to her on at least 5 separate occasions

Girls know what you want from them but they like to see how you're going to go about getting it
 

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You are probably going too hard too quickly , you do not ask for personal details the first time you talk to her in an environment like the gym it just comes off as wierd and desperate

Just introduce yourself , chat briefly and leave .

The next time you see her say Hi, chat a bit more

With gym girls its all about building familarity, like you shouldn't be asking for number or instagram until you've spoken to her on at least 5 separate occasions

Girls know what you want from them but they like to see how you're going to go about getting it
I don't approach in the gym but this is how I would do it. Escalate with more banter each time you see them and don't be overly flirtatious/sexual.
 

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You are probably going too hard too quickly , you do not ask for personal details the first time you talk to her in an environment like the gym it just comes off as wierd and desperate

Just introduce yourself , chat briefly and leave .

The next time you see her say Hi, chat a bit more

With gym girls its all about building familarity, like you shouldn't be asking for number or instagram until you've spoken to her on at least 5 separate occasions

Girls know what you want from them but they like to see how you're going to go about getting it
I agree, good points, note to self. As both are regulars in the gym, that venue should more or less be seen and treated as a social circle.
 

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Gym is for working out... I don't waste my time trying to pick up chicks. Not a knock on people that do but I'm there for a specific purpose. If some woman approached me in the gym then I'd have to see, but that has never happened. Mostly because where I lift is a no frills warehouse that is cold in Winter, hot in Summer. The only women I see there are serious about working out and don't have time for flirting.

I get there are other gyms where this sort of thing is common, I just don't use them.
 

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Gym is for working out... I don't waste my time trying to pick up chicks. Not a knock on people that do but I'm there for a specific purpose. If some woman approached me in the gym then I'd have to see, but that has never happened. Mostly because where I lift is a no frills warehouse that is cold in Winter, hot in Summer. The only women I see there are serious about working out and don't have time for flirting.

I get there are other gyms where this sort of thing is common, I just don't use them.
There is a certain appeal to picking up women at your place of exercise. Approaching takes time. The idea of picking up women at an exercise facility feels like a "kill two birds with one stone" idea.

I agree that some facilities are better suited to this than others.

I've been to a variety of facility types over the years too. My most common gym experiences are in big box type gyms.

The general gym floor at big box type gyms has been ruined by too many women wearing headphones/earbuds. Classes at these types of gyms is a workaround with fantastic ratios. Despite good ratios in classes at big box type gyms, few women are sociable in these classes and few dates happen despite the ratios.

I've also been to more boutique type class studio facilities and not found women any more sociable and interested in going on dates in these environments as compared to classes at big box style gyms.
 

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I had negative experiences with gym game...and overall I just don't think it is a good place to do my thang.
 

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I been going to my gym here in Mexico for the last two weeks. Around 3pm. I been starting my routines with bear crawls. Then I do some squats to get the testosterone flowing.
Today I focused on OHP , side laterals and face pulls, and some tris.
I have noticed females glancing or maybe it’s my mind playing tricks on me since I’m zeroed in on my workouts. But there is definitely a couple mamacitas that I wouldn’t mind doing bad things to even if they didn’t shower.
 
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