"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A theory on using facebook instead of POF.

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It's just a theory, a thought. Maybe one of you guys can try it. I was doing searches researching my market and thinking about how effective FB ads are (that's another story innit?). I realized that with facebook's new search paramaters you can search now for single women. I gave it a go and I found every single woman I know. I found women I saw on POF. I could see if we had mutual friends in common to kick start a convo or at least and ad. Basically FB has brought back the myspace hookup.

Go to the search bar on Facebook and type in single women who live in "your city".

Someone report back and let me know if this worked for ya. Good luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yep,

works!!

thnx for the tip :up:
 
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I don't have Facebook, I've never had Facebook, don't want Facebook. Atom Smasher says that having Facebook will make you "common". I don't know about all that, but I will say that by not having it, I can see that there are certain advantages to it.

I would think that by being on Facebook, it at least puts you on the radar of some women who probably would otherwise be unaware of you (and vice versa). It also gives you a means to contact them if you don't otherwise have a way. I'm not convinced that having Facebook is such a big no no for a DJ. Seems to me that it, like everything else, could be a useful tool if used correctly.
 
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NICE find man, kudos to you! REPPED!

Best thing about this is the mutual connections!

I con do some damage with this!
 
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samspade said:
I'm sure it's a good plan. I decided last year that I spend enough time online and that there is no substitute for in person approaches...maybe that makes me a Luddite, I don't know.
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Yah. I manage a few facebook pages so I use it a lot. But my personal posts are usually about work or technology. I stay out of religion, dating and political conversations, 90% of all facebook posts. I'm not in the game but I just thought it would be a good tip for those who are and use facebook responsibly.

If I were trying to use facebook for hookups, I would limit my profile severely. I would treat it like an online dating profile. Good pictures, fun activities and make it all about my social life being awesome. I'd leave out work and family stuff and limit my connections to family and coworkers.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74 said:
Good pictures, fun activities and make it all about my social life being awesome. I'd leave out work and family stuff and limit my connections to family and coworkers.
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I'd make mine about my social life being awesome, but I don't like to lie lol. I really can't stand being around people too often these days.

Anyway, if you limit your connections to family and coworkers, isn't that going to make your "friends" list smaller, which would contradict your social life being awesome? Or can you make it so that people can't see your friends list?

I've never had Facebook, so I don't know. Seems like if you didn't have 700 friends or whatever, girls would think you were a loser.
 
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zekko said:
I'd make mine about my social life being awesome, but I don't like to lie lol. I really can't stand being around people too often these days.

Anyway, if you limit your connections to family and coworkers, isn't that going to make your "friends" list smaller, which would contradict your social life being awesome? Or can you make it so that people can't see your friends list?

I've never had Facebook, so I don't know. Seems like if you didn't have 700 friends or whatever, girls would think you were a loser.
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You may be right. This is all a theory so it hasn't been field tested by me. I did send some friend requests to cute single girls that had mutual friends as me. A couple added me. But that's not much proof of anything with out a bang.
 
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Yea it didn't work for me either. I typed in the search box "single women in Houston Texas" and I get nothing. I tried the iphone app and the website.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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