"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A theory on using facebook instead of POF.

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It's just a theory, a thought. Maybe one of you guys can try it. I was doing searches researching my market and thinking about how effective FB ads are (that's another story innit?). I realized that with facebook's new search paramaters you can search now for single women. I gave it a go and I found every single woman I know. I found women I saw on POF. I could see if we had mutual friends in common to kick start a convo or at least and ad. Basically FB has brought back the myspace hookup.

Go to the search bar on Facebook and type in single women who live in "your city".

Someone report back and let me know if this worked for ya. Good luck.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yep,

works!!

thnx for the tip :up:
 
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I don't have Facebook, I've never had Facebook, don't want Facebook. Atom Smasher says that having Facebook will make you "common". I don't know about all that, but I will say that by not having it, I can see that there are certain advantages to it.

I would think that by being on Facebook, it at least puts you on the radar of some women who probably would otherwise be unaware of you (and vice versa). It also gives you a means to contact them if you don't otherwise have a way. I'm not convinced that having Facebook is such a big no no for a DJ. Seems to me that it, like everything else, could be a useful tool if used correctly.
 
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NICE find man, kudos to you! REPPED!

Best thing about this is the mutual connections!

I con do some damage with this!
 
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samspade said:
I'm sure it's a good plan. I decided last year that I spend enough time online and that there is no substitute for in person approaches...maybe that makes me a Luddite, I don't know.
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Yah. I manage a few facebook pages so I use it a lot. But my personal posts are usually about work or technology. I stay out of religion, dating and political conversations, 90% of all facebook posts. I'm not in the game but I just thought it would be a good tip for those who are and use facebook responsibly.

If I were trying to use facebook for hookups, I would limit my profile severely. I would treat it like an online dating profile. Good pictures, fun activities and make it all about my social life being awesome. I'd leave out work and family stuff and limit my connections to family and coworkers.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warrior74 said:
Good pictures, fun activities and make it all about my social life being awesome. I'd leave out work and family stuff and limit my connections to family and coworkers.
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I'd make mine about my social life being awesome, but I don't like to lie lol. I really can't stand being around people too often these days.

Anyway, if you limit your connections to family and coworkers, isn't that going to make your "friends" list smaller, which would contradict your social life being awesome? Or can you make it so that people can't see your friends list?

I've never had Facebook, so I don't know. Seems like if you didn't have 700 friends or whatever, girls would think you were a loser.
 
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zekko said:
I'd make mine about my social life being awesome, but I don't like to lie lol. I really can't stand being around people too often these days.

Anyway, if you limit your connections to family and coworkers, isn't that going to make your "friends" list smaller, which would contradict your social life being awesome? Or can you make it so that people can't see your friends list?

I've never had Facebook, so I don't know. Seems like if you didn't have 700 friends or whatever, girls would think you were a loser.
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You may be right. This is all a theory so it hasn't been field tested by me. I did send some friend requests to cute single girls that had mutual friends as me. A couple added me. But that's not much proof of anything with out a bang.
 
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Yea it didn't work for me either. I typed in the search box "single women in Houston Texas" and I get nothing. I tried the iphone app and the website.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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