"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In the middle of June I came here asking for advice on a girl that I was (still am) trying to get with. I came here with nice guy and AFC tendencies which if left unchecked would have ****ed up my chances even more.

This website has changed my outlook on girls/life for the good, This website has given me a sense of guidance on my life. Instead of giving me advice on how I should act this website has taught me how to think for myself.

I feel as if i have literally been given a second chance to get things right, It's going to be a long bumpy road until I reach some of the goals that I've recently set myself too achieve but i can see light at the end of the road.

Just had to get that off of my chest, theirs so much to learn from this site.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all this in a month?
 
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^ there's still a lot of work to be done, this site has given me a huge list of stuff to improve on. I feel better because I'm actually keeping myself occupied with stuff to do throughout my days instead of harping on the past and dwelling on my emotions.

Some of the articles on this site really hit me hard at first and made me realize some of my past errors. Ever since i started reading this site I've had an urge to improve myself even more.

Devilkingx2 I don't think you understand how much information I've been feeding myself from this site and trying to apply too my everyday life. I have lots of stuff i need to figure out/get done with my life but the motivational stuff has DEFINITELY taken me out of the slump I've been in.
 
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devilkingx2 said:
all this in a month?
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You'd be surprised what can be accomplished in a month with the right mindset. Even if this isn't his "final" transformation, progress is still progress.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok then guys, makes sense,

good job OP, I hope you become an even greater DJ one day.
 
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