"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A text I just got from a milf

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"At work almost every day I get hit on by guys asking for my number, waiting for my shift to be over to talk to me and other things yet you act so uninterested? Everyone thinks youre a good nice guy - obviously not".

This milf hb7 has been contacting me in short spurts since April this year. I really dont even want to fcuk her because of how emotional and random she becomes. She has told me in the past that she finds me irresitable because of the way I act.

This text was random have not spoken or replied to her properly in weeks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The price of being a man of value is that others will value you.

Do not engage unless willing to put up with crazy.
 
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Not exactly sure if you're asking for help or what but here's my two cents: sounds like she thinks she's the $#!%, and is surprised you're not willing to worship the ground she walks on. Which considering you rate her as only a 7 is kinda funny she's acting like this.

My guess is she was a "late bloomer" (i.e a chick that was ugly/not extraordinarily attractive most of her life and now is) and because of that she got an inflated ego and believes she deserves to be "worshiped" by all these men. Long story short, (assuming what I said is true) now that she is getting all this attention, she doesn't want it to let it go, and see's your uninterested attitude towards her as a sign that she is starting to lose it.
 
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Kind of posted this because it gives me and us a different perspective to the same guy (me). In my other thread titled 'help me not lose a good thing' or something Im totally different with another girl. Interesting how I can be afc with some and better much better with those I am not interested in.

My development has to revolve around being a DJ to girls Im interested in beyond sex. But also, I think I am definitely turned on by the chase. When a girl is easy to get, I tend to just go through the motions and play it almost mechanically and cool. When she's a tough get I turn raw and uncut - jeopardizing my chances.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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