Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

A text I just got from a milf

For_F

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2012
Messages
170
Reaction score
6
"At work almost every day I get hit on by guys asking for my number, waiting for my shift to be over to talk to me and other things yet you act so uninterested? Everyone thinks youre a good nice guy - obviously not".

This milf hb7 has been contacting me in short spurts since April this year. I really dont even want to fcuk her because of how emotional and random she becomes. She has told me in the past that she finds me irresitable because of the way I act.

This text was random have not spoken or replied to her properly in weeks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Uberguy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2010
Messages
210
Reaction score
15
The price of being a man of value is that others will value you.

Do not engage unless willing to put up with crazy.
 

Eph

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2012
Messages
542
Reaction score
32
Not exactly sure if you're asking for help or what but here's my two cents: sounds like she thinks she's the $#!%, and is surprised you're not willing to worship the ground she walks on. Which considering you rate her as only a 7 is kinda funny she's acting like this.

My guess is she was a "late bloomer" (i.e a chick that was ugly/not extraordinarily attractive most of her life and now is) and because of that she got an inflated ego and believes she deserves to be "worshiped" by all these men. Long story short, (assuming what I said is true) now that she is getting all this attention, she doesn't want it to let it go, and see's your uninterested attitude towards her as a sign that she is starting to lose it.
 

For_F

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 24, 2012
Messages
170
Reaction score
6
Kind of posted this because it gives me and us a different perspective to the same guy (me). In my other thread titled 'help me not lose a good thing' or something Im totally different with another girl. Interesting how I can be afc with some and better much better with those I am not interested in.

My development has to revolve around being a DJ to girls Im interested in beyond sex. But also, I think I am definitely turned on by the chase. When a girl is easy to get, I tend to just go through the motions and play it almost mechanically and cool. When she's a tough get I turn raw and uncut - jeopardizing my chances.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top