the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
i hope it doesn't... but i need to prepare for that "payday" call...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Terrible Situation in my Marriage
- Thread starter the_great_gaia
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
WIFE? She's not a wife! She's a hor with a license to steal! (A marriage license, that is)Last Man Standing said:Haha, are you encoraging him prostituting his own wife?
*She doesn't have sex with him
*He isn't allowed to live with her
*She doesn't like it when he comes over, she just takes his money and boots him out.
What is she hiding I wonder?
Care to make a guess?Last Man Standing
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Hmmmm, let me guess.....a man? Don't tell Gaia this!WaterTiger said:What is she hiding I wonder?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you said it sister.WaterTiger said:What is she hiding I wonder?
IamtheAlphamale
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Okay theres no way in hell this chick is seeing another guy. But I'll tell ya one thing... shes CRAZY AS HELL. WHY WOULD YOU MARRY HER?!?! Sorry homie but theres nothing anyone can do for you with this one. Your screwed.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.