"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i have a girlfriend for like 7 months, and in the morning on her birthday at 6 o'clock! she received a message from a guy named bob, it says:

hello honey, happy birthday i hope you have a nice day. greetings bob.

she says its her collegue, should i believe her or not. because she is saying that she is crazy about me. what should i do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All friends call eachother honey don't they? :rolleyes:
 
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Damn if I ever woke up to that message on my girlfriends phone, I'd be soo pissed.

I don't think just a friend would say "Hello honey" and I would know who my g/f's friends were and if I never knew of this guy I would start to wonder. I personally think she's fvcking with you man
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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oh no!! its the end of the world...

ha ha ha, its only a guy sayng happy birthday.... its no need to start thinking to much abouty it.
 
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go with your gut , if you sense suspiciousness or something is not right.. start checking up on her or "testing" her.
 
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dont forget the guy said "honey"



i might say that to a girl in a flirty sorda way just like girls will say stuff like "ttyl babe" even though they got BF and ****. I would not blow up over just this once incident. Just watch but do not act paranoid.
 
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Friends: Do not allow this message to send you into a AFC frenzy....It really isn't that big a deal yet, and it shouldn't be a catalyst for you to turn it into a big a deal!!!

Put it down in her criminal record and continue to develop your game!!!!
 
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anyone who thinks she is cheating because of that.. -keyboard jockey with no worldly experience..

she may very well be sucking bob off and coming home and kissing u on the lips..
BUT that message should not cause suspission..

BUT if you can't handle it and think she is cheating, go find yourself tom and suck him off, then kiss her on the lips.

an eye for an eye.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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