"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i have a girlfriend for like 7 months, and in the morning on her birthday at 6 o'clock! she received a message from a guy named bob, it says:

hello honey, happy birthday i hope you have a nice day. greetings bob.

she says its her collegue, should i believe her or not. because she is saying that she is crazy about me. what should i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jprjrjr

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All friends call eachother honey don't they? :rolleyes:
 

unistork

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Damn if I ever woke up to that message on my girlfriends phone, I'd be soo pissed.

I don't think just a friend would say "Hello honey" and I would know who my g/f's friends were and if I never knew of this guy I would start to wonder. I personally think she's fvcking with you man
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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catch

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oh no!! its the end of the world...

ha ha ha, its only a guy sayng happy birthday.... its no need to start thinking to much abouty it.
 

DeathDealer

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go with your gut , if you sense suspiciousness or something is not right.. start checking up on her or "testing" her.
 

Fenderules

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dont forget the guy said "honey"



i might say that to a girl in a flirty sorda way just like girls will say stuff like "ttyl babe" even though they got BF and ****. I would not blow up over just this once incident. Just watch but do not act paranoid.
 

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Friends: Do not allow this message to send you into a AFC frenzy....It really isn't that big a deal yet, and it shouldn't be a catalyst for you to turn it into a big a deal!!!

Put it down in her criminal record and continue to develop your game!!!!
 

quest

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anyone who thinks she is cheating because of that.. -keyboard jockey with no worldly experience..

she may very well be sucking bob off and coming home and kissing u on the lips..
BUT that message should not cause suspission..

BUT if you can't handle it and think she is cheating, go find yourself tom and suck him off, then kiss her on the lips.

an eye for an eye.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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