"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A success story. Thank you SoSuave.

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Several months back I discovered this site after my experience with a chick for which I had a deep, AFC oneitis (like a lot of us). I was a total chump then.

I wrote her letters, payed her $100 prom ticket, and even confessed my unconditional love to her. She, of course, rejected my sorry as$.

I don't blame her now, even though the experience devastated me almost to the point of suicide by Marine Corps. enlistment. :)

Luckily I found this website, which in turn changed my life. I cut my long, death metal hair, worked out like crazy; became what they call "physically attractive".

The most important change and most difficult leap, of course, was the psychological one. I found courage inside of me. Approaching girls with confidence was becoming natural. My success rate was nearly at 100%.

Recently at a party, I encountered the broad I had oneitis for when I was a pathetic 17 year-old. She was just like I remembered; all her 5/10 self.

I decided I was going to try.

I approached her. She recognized me. You could see the twinkle in her eye as I got closer. I went to work.

That night I f*cked her like an animal. She loved it. 5 months back I would have never dreamed of this.

I open my eyes. It's morning. She's in bed, staring at me. "Hi David," she said, "After thinking all night, I wanna try the dating thing with you. I made a plan, and I think we could really make this work..."

I get up. Quickly get dressed. I turn the door nob.

I glance back at her, and with a big smirk on my face I say:

"No."

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sosuave/being a don juan is improving life FOR YOURSELF. I am glad that you are living life and enjoying it for YOURSELF.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thanks guys.

I can't say I have any complaints.

Few people live without this burden.
 

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These are the stories that make me realize that this whole PU business is just a doorway to a better life in general.

Good job!
 

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I jumped with excitement as the door shut behind me.

Hard to keep your cool when such an epic moment just happened.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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