"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A success story. Thank you SoSuave.

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Several months back I discovered this site after my experience with a chick for which I had a deep, AFC oneitis (like a lot of us). I was a total chump then.

I wrote her letters, payed her $100 prom ticket, and even confessed my unconditional love to her. She, of course, rejected my sorry as$.

I don't blame her now, even though the experience devastated me almost to the point of suicide by Marine Corps. enlistment. :)

Luckily I found this website, which in turn changed my life. I cut my long, death metal hair, worked out like crazy; became what they call "physically attractive".

The most important change and most difficult leap, of course, was the psychological one. I found courage inside of me. Approaching girls with confidence was becoming natural. My success rate was nearly at 100%.

Recently at a party, I encountered the broad I had oneitis for when I was a pathetic 17 year-old. She was just like I remembered; all her 5/10 self.

I decided I was going to try.

I approached her. She recognized me. You could see the twinkle in her eye as I got closer. I went to work.

That night I f*cked her like an animal. She loved it. 5 months back I would have never dreamed of this.

I open my eyes. It's morning. She's in bed, staring at me. "Hi David," she said, "After thinking all night, I wanna try the dating thing with you. I made a plan, and I think we could really make this work..."

I get up. Quickly get dressed. I turn the door nob.

I glance back at her, and with a big smirk on my face I say:

"No."

Thank you SoSuave.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sosuave/being a don juan is improving life FOR YOURSELF. I am glad that you are living life and enjoying it for YOURSELF.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks guys.

I can't say I have any complaints.

Few people live without this burden.
 

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These are the stories that make me realize that this whole PU business is just a doorway to a better life in general.

Good job!
 

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I jumped with excitement as the door shut behind me.

Hard to keep your cool when such an epic moment just happened.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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