"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
a stripper gave me her numbers. Now what should I do?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
edger
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Nah, sorry guy, but I'm afraid it's your ignorance that's a laugh.Espi said:
You're a teacher, wow..darn scary..but yet again, it doesn't take much of an intelligent person, with intelligent views to become one in the first place. That's why kids views are so distorted(aside from their parental influence/conditioning) and they turn out just as f*cked up as their Puritan-like, unintelligent, narrow-minded mentors with Matrix thinking.
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Say's the educated teacher.Espi said:
Mr. Brains, a job is a job. As long as you are hardworking and don't do anything wrong to harm anyone on the job(be it physically, mentally, or emotionally), there is dignity in that job. You should never mock someone's profession.
What's the deal with many on this board hating strippers, and hating women in general who are sexually promiscous, typically referring to them over and over as "wh*res" and "sluts"? Besides, if women weren't promiscous, you'd all be pulling your f*ckin' hairs out. You should all be happy that women are promiscuous, cause if they weren't, we'd be f*cked. As much as women piss me the f*ck off with their bullsh*t games and attention seeking/validation, I have to say, I must defend them when it comes to stripping, escorting, or sleeping with multiple guys. Everyone who mocks chix with regards to these things is forgetting one important factor...women are human just like us men are. Leave 'em the f*ck be. If they aren't causing you or the world around them harm, then there isn't a problem.
Bonhomme
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Was that a typo? I'd say cocaine is shit.
It destroys mood-elevating neurotransmitter function permanently. Everyone I've known who was a "user" had serious depression issues.
Most of the strippers I've known are not coke-heads. As for other traits, I've not found any generalizations to hold true, except that a very high % smoke cigarettes; which is foolish, given the fact that they trade on their looks (of which smoking accelerates the decline). Same goes for models. Go figure.
Many of the strippers I've known are very sensible, together people, and I enjoy hanging out with 'em.
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Hah, comical. You're telling me you would pass up the opportunity to bang 3 different hot chix per week if you had the chance? I think not. So, if you would be sexually promiscous, why can't women? Us guys do it all the time.SinJester said:
And by the way just in case you didn't know, much of the time those STD's you're talking about, you know where they come from? Guys who sleep around a lot. So before you make your arguments, ya might wanna think...if you're even capable of it that is.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It's a joke. I've had those very same issues because of chronic use, I know how bad it is. It destroys dopamine neurotransmitters (the reward chemical). Any drug that floods a certain chemical such as dopamine or steretonin will then make it much harder to raise those chemicals again after the intial flood.Bonhomme said:
As far as slvts go, How can you even get off with one? What have you accomplished? Your pounding the same sh!t every other guy has. Does that not make you feel sick?
Bonhomme
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As for the demeaning commentary on sex-positive women, I personally find sex to be more about pleasure than "accomplishment."
And did I ever say I respect guys who did? So your aking assumptions.
Sorry for not wanting my chick to have slept with 1837640 guys before I got with her.
And yeah your 100% scientifically correct... Only guys can transmit STDs... :s
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Fact is, a lot of people who are fairly sexually active are the most scrupulous about safety. It's more about one's recklessness than level of activity (within reason, of course).
And joking aside, it is false to assume that a gal is reckless -- or even particularly active, as far as intercourse goes -- just because she's a stripper.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
