"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
a stripper gave me her numbers. Now what should I do?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
edger
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Nah, sorry guy, but I'm afraid it's your ignorance that's a laugh.Espi said:
You're a teacher, wow..darn scary..but yet again, it doesn't take much of an intelligent person, with intelligent views to become one in the first place. That's why kids views are so distorted(aside from their parental influence/conditioning) and they turn out just as f*cked up as their Puritan-like, unintelligent, narrow-minded mentors with Matrix thinking.
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Say's the educated teacher.Espi said:
Mr. Brains, a job is a job. As long as you are hardworking and don't do anything wrong to harm anyone on the job(be it physically, mentally, or emotionally), there is dignity in that job. You should never mock someone's profession.
What's the deal with many on this board hating strippers, and hating women in general who are sexually promiscous, typically referring to them over and over as "wh*res" and "sluts"? Besides, if women weren't promiscous, you'd all be pulling your f*ckin' hairs out. You should all be happy that women are promiscuous, cause if they weren't, we'd be f*cked. As much as women piss me the f*ck off with their bullsh*t games and attention seeking/validation, I have to say, I must defend them when it comes to stripping, escorting, or sleeping with multiple guys. Everyone who mocks chix with regards to these things is forgetting one important factor...women are human just like us men are. Leave 'em the f*ck be. If they aren't causing you or the world around them harm, then there isn't a problem.
Bonhomme
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Was that a typo? I'd say cocaine is shit.
It destroys mood-elevating neurotransmitter function permanently. Everyone I've known who was a "user" had serious depression issues.
Most of the strippers I've known are not coke-heads. As for other traits, I've not found any generalizations to hold true, except that a very high % smoke cigarettes; which is foolish, given the fact that they trade on their looks (of which smoking accelerates the decline). Same goes for models. Go figure.
Many of the strippers I've known are very sensible, together people, and I enjoy hanging out with 'em.
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Hah, comical. You're telling me you would pass up the opportunity to bang 3 different hot chix per week if you had the chance? I think not. So, if you would be sexually promiscous, why can't women? Us guys do it all the time.SinJester said:
And by the way just in case you didn't know, much of the time those STD's you're talking about, you know where they come from? Guys who sleep around a lot. So before you make your arguments, ya might wanna think...if you're even capable of it that is.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's a joke. I've had those very same issues because of chronic use, I know how bad it is. It destroys dopamine neurotransmitters (the reward chemical). Any drug that floods a certain chemical such as dopamine or steretonin will then make it much harder to raise those chemicals again after the intial flood.Bonhomme said:
As far as slvts go, How can you even get off with one? What have you accomplished? Your pounding the same sh!t every other guy has. Does that not make you feel sick?
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
As for the demeaning commentary on sex-positive women, I personally find sex to be more about pleasure than "accomplishment."
And did I ever say I respect guys who did? So your aking assumptions.
Sorry for not wanting my chick to have slept with 1837640 guys before I got with her.
And yeah your 100% scientifically correct... Only guys can transmit STDs... :s
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Fact is, a lot of people who are fairly sexually active are the most scrupulous about safety. It's more about one's recklessness than level of activity (within reason, of course).
And joking aside, it is false to assume that a gal is reckless -- or even particularly active, as far as intercourse goes -- just because she's a stripper.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
