OK I wanted to give an Status update on my situation. Ok so I went to jail a year ago yesterday the judge gave me 225 days on two misdemeanors. So my release was October 5th 2015. Had to struggle to find a job with a record. But I found one and within my job I found a way be my own boss. I have also moved into my own house. Its a really nice and I'm comfortable here. I have a lawyer paid and ready to go to war for me. Now I just struggle a little with loneliness my brother talked about moving in but I had house rules and I'm paranoid of my family since they helped lock me up. So him and my mom stopped talking about it. Also I am not spinning any plates. I'm thinking I need more time. I do not have any transportation as of yet except my work vehicle and taking a semi everywhere is not feasible :-( . With all that said I am happy with the way things are going and proud of myself these things maybe basic for some of you but for me its been a struggle. My next goal is a car and to date around. Thank you all for the support
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter bigwuz
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Keep climbing out of your hole. Its tough but you can do it. Sounds like you have made loads of progress.
