OK I wanted to give an Status update on my situation. Ok so I went to jail a year ago yesterday the judge gave me 225 days on two misdemeanors. So my release was October 5th 2015. Had to struggle to find a job with a record. But I found one and within my job I found a way be my own boss. I have also moved into my own house. Its a really nice and I'm comfortable here. I have a lawyer paid and ready to go to war for me. Now I just struggle a little with loneliness my brother talked about moving in but I had house rules and I'm paranoid of my family since they helped lock me up. So him and my mom stopped talking about it. Also I am not spinning any plates. I'm thinking I need more time. I do not have any transportation as of yet except my work vehicle and taking a semi everywhere is not feasible :-( . With all that said I am happy with the way things are going and proud of myself these things maybe basic for some of you but for me its been a struggle. My next goal is a car and to date around. Thank you all for the support
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A Status update
- Thread starter bigwuz
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dustmuffin
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Keep climbing out of your hole. Its tough but you can do it. Sounds like you have made loads of progress.
