Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'd consider myself about an 8 out of 10 in terms of looks, with ever increasing "game" and mastery of attraction. I haven't had a g/f in over 2 years. Met a girl last night at a party while I was just doing some routines...well her friend said she likes me. I"d consider her about a 6, not overweight or ugly, I"m really just not all that attracted to her. I don't want to use her, but I'm wondering if it would help out my "game" to date her. Is it better to have a 6 with you or be alone in terms of social proof for hotter girls? Is it possible to go from a 6....to a 7....to and 8....to a 9...?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I've always made the experience that it's better to hit on the hottest chick in the place... even if she rejects you (well, it's better if that reject is not too obvious - although my experiences included a lot of these rejects ^^), the other girls watching you will think that you have to do with "quality girls" (sry, I don't know how to put that in English). I don't think this strategy works in the opposite direction...
 
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LOL... no, no, no Austrian... the secret is that you talk to everybody in the club... you are seen with everybody... obviously you have your group of friends who you can use as your social proof, but you only talking to hot chicks isn't social proof...

This girl... if you want to fvck her and date her then do that... I dunno, 'date' sounds so formal, you just want a casual relationship with her really... and why would you be using her? So many people have that mentality rather than being smart to the game... Simply put, you hook up with a chick and it's mutually beneficial... chicks want to fvck too, she's gettin somethin out of this deal too
 
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Yeah, but he wants to "date" that girl for getting social proof... and he asked if it's better to be alone or have a 6/whatever with you show social proof for higher numbers...

thanks for the correction, Ashley. I'm here to learn :)
I didn't mean to talk _only_ to hot chicks, I just thought if I try to get known to some people who I don't know at a location, I'd better start with the higher numbers... and still talk to everybody (well, that would be impossible in the club I'm frequently going to... too many people ^^) please correct me on that theory ... guess I've to stop using it :(
 
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Better to be seen with a 6 or seen alone?

What do you think? Girls typically like guys that have girls or a girl around them....but what if he's an 8 or 9 and she's a 6. Is this rule still in effect?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Better to be seen with a 6 or seen alone?

What do you think? Girls typically like guys that have girls or a girl around them....but what if he's an 8 or 9 and she's a 6. Is this rule still in effect?
 
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