"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd consider myself about an 8 out of 10 in terms of looks, with ever increasing "game" and mastery of attraction. I haven't had a g/f in over 2 years. Met a girl last night at a party while I was just doing some routines...well her friend said she likes me. I"d consider her about a 6, not overweight or ugly, I"m really just not all that attracted to her. I don't want to use her, but I'm wondering if it would help out my "game" to date her. Is it better to have a 6 with you or be alone in terms of social proof for hotter girls? Is it possible to go from a 6....to a 7....to and 8....to a 9...?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've always made the experience that it's better to hit on the hottest chick in the place... even if she rejects you (well, it's better if that reject is not too obvious - although my experiences included a lot of these rejects ^^), the other girls watching you will think that you have to do with "quality girls" (sry, I don't know how to put that in English). I don't think this strategy works in the opposite direction...
 
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LOL... no, no, no Austrian... the secret is that you talk to everybody in the club... you are seen with everybody... obviously you have your group of friends who you can use as your social proof, but you only talking to hot chicks isn't social proof...

This girl... if you want to fvck her and date her then do that... I dunno, 'date' sounds so formal, you just want a casual relationship with her really... and why would you be using her? So many people have that mentality rather than being smart to the game... Simply put, you hook up with a chick and it's mutually beneficial... chicks want to fvck too, she's gettin somethin out of this deal too
 
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Yeah, but he wants to "date" that girl for getting social proof... and he asked if it's better to be alone or have a 6/whatever with you show social proof for higher numbers...

thanks for the correction, Ashley. I'm here to learn :)
I didn't mean to talk _only_ to hot chicks, I just thought if I try to get known to some people who I don't know at a location, I'd better start with the higher numbers... and still talk to everybody (well, that would be impossible in the club I'm frequently going to... too many people ^^) please correct me on that theory ... guess I've to stop using it :(
 
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Better to be seen with a 6 or seen alone?

What do you think? Girls typically like guys that have girls or a girl around them....but what if he's an 8 or 9 and she's a 6. Is this rule still in effect?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Better to be seen with a 6 or seen alone?

What do you think? Girls typically like guys that have girls or a girl around them....but what if he's an 8 or 9 and she's a 6. Is this rule still in effect?
 
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