"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A sobering dose of AFC I encountered

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One morning recently, I finished up a test and was thirsty so I went to the coffee shop for some tea. There I sat down to drink and overheard these 2 AFC guys with grey hair probably in their 50's or 60's talking to each other. One of them looked like a sleezy used car salesman and wouldn't stop complaining about his lady friend..and then she calls. He says something along the lines of "What you want me to come over now...OK I'll be there in FIVE MINUTES." Practically on his knees, pathetic....just PATHETIC. I could tell this man was a B!tch because it took the baristas forever to whip up whatever wussy ****tail he ordered.
This inspired me not to be as weak as these AFC creeps when I'm that old or ever, so I go directly back to school and sarge on 3 HBs in the same classroom, getting all their info ;). This pitty-party also reminded me that there is other stuff I can do with my valuable time instead of being anyone's B!tch. This brings me to my A.M. session on the heavy bag :box:
I began sparring on the heavy bag and my head throbbed with each jab I landed due to a headache a few hours prior. I assured myself the pain would reside and it did so in a minute and I kept on throwing jabs. The same is said with rejections, it takes any HB 2 seconds to tell you "no" but you keep on sarging and it doesn't even phase you anymore like the pain.
I practice my sparring on this heavy bag and keep coming back for more. I can train like an animal but I know I won't be able to hit forever because I get exhausted, but even when I'm winded I continue delivering each hit with bad intentions, where as a wimp would just slap at the bag doing no harm and even QUIT. Don't be that guy that quits after 2 rejections.
Eventually I have to wrap up each session on the bag, but the punching bag still hangs after all the abuse I inflict. With that said, the sea will always be filled with plenty of fish. Keep fighting boys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Motivational thread...nice one.
 

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Bonafide said:
What about after 5 rejections ? :) Is it safe to quit then?
no, never quit lol

yeah great motivational post, its kinda like looking back at your AFC past and thinking "im never goin back to that place ever again!"

great post man keep it up
 

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Thanks, this is my 1st ever thread since joining. I agree that anything you once did AFC doesn't even phase you anymore. I went through a bunch of No's b4 I got a yes but it outweighed all those No's combined. And to think those guys in the shop weren't even married haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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