"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A "smile" does NOT mean interest

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I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do you smile back out of politeness to the fat chick in exactly the same way as you do to a girl you're interested in. Does your eyes dilate at the fat chick? Do you hold them the same length.

My smile certainly isn't the same in both of these scenarios. Neither is theirs. You can tell the difference, and so can they.
 
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Zone20 said:
I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
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I guess it depends you know? If she only looks at you once and smiles its definitley just being nice or polite, but in a social situation where she looks at you from time to time then smiles or just looks at you....maybe there could be a smidgen of interest?

Most girls I encounter smile at me once, but keeps persistantly staring at me time to time, its weird because I dont have boogers hanging out of my nose or anything....dont know whats wrong. :confused:
 
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Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
 
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Latinoman said:
Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
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Smiling shows that a person is receptive to conversation and is more easily approachable.

Smiling is a very healthy response but I would rather make friends or game any girls that smiles.

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