"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A "smile" does NOT mean interest

Zone20

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I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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azanon

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Do you smile back out of politeness to the fat chick in exactly the same way as you do to a girl you're interested in. Does your eyes dilate at the fat chick? Do you hold them the same length.

My smile certainly isn't the same in both of these scenarios. Neither is theirs. You can tell the difference, and so can they.
 

michaelhctam

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Zone20 said:
I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
I guess it depends you know? If she only looks at you once and smiles its definitley just being nice or polite, but in a social situation where she looks at you from time to time then smiles or just looks at you....maybe there could be a smidgen of interest?

Most girls I encounter smile at me once, but keeps persistantly staring at me time to time, its weird because I dont have boogers hanging out of my nose or anything....dont know whats wrong. :confused:
 

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Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
 

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Latinoman said:
Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
:rockon:

Smiling shows that a person is receptive to conversation and is more easily approachable.

Smiling is a very healthy response but I would rather make friends or game any girls that smiles.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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