Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A "smile" does NOT mean interest

Zone20

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I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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azanon

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Do you smile back out of politeness to the fat chick in exactly the same way as you do to a girl you're interested in. Does your eyes dilate at the fat chick? Do you hold them the same length.

My smile certainly isn't the same in both of these scenarios. Neither is theirs. You can tell the difference, and so can they.
 

michaelhctam

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Zone20 said:
I never understood why so many people think a smile means a HB is interested.

For example - if I was in a store and an ugly chick happened to smile at me, I would smile back. It's being nice, being polite.

If a fat chick smiled at me, I would smile back. What are you going to do? Scorn her?

I think a smile is a very subjective.
I guess it depends you know? If she only looks at you once and smiles its definitley just being nice or polite, but in a social situation where she looks at you from time to time then smiles or just looks at you....maybe there could be a smidgen of interest?

Most girls I encounter smile at me once, but keeps persistantly staring at me time to time, its weird because I dont have boogers hanging out of my nose or anything....dont know whats wrong. :confused:
 

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Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
 

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Latinoman said:
Zone, you are 100% correct. A smile might or might not mean interest.

However, it means something POSITIVE. And a positive sign is better than not sign and much better than bad signs.

So...a smile opens the doors.
:rockon:

Smiling shows that a person is receptive to conversation and is more easily approachable.

Smiling is a very healthy response but I would rather make friends or game any girls that smiles.

comic_relief
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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