a simple question

[sam21]

when they say to you that they feel "not stable".. like, random emotions and kind of bad... should we try to talk to them about it, or leave till they get again in a good mood?

because someone else could get the points for helping, I don't know

what's the catch when they are in a bad mood? because I really like to talk about their problems and to help, but that never gave me anything else than the pleasure of the moment... so, it's no good I think

 

[Schlep]

Leave talking about their problems to their girlfriends. Almost all guys suck at it anyways. I know I did before I started taking comm classes.

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by sam21
when they say to you that they feel "not stable".. like, random emotions and kind of bad... should we try to talk to them about it, or leave till they get again in a good mood?

because someone else could get the points for helping, I don't know

what's the catch when they are in a bad mood? because I really like to talk about their problems and to help, but that never gave me anything else than the pleasure of the moment... so, it's no good I think

Well, I think that it depends on your intentions with this chick...if its friendship, which its probably not, then you will want to be there for her unconditionally,if its a relationship you seek then you must be careful...dont go too deep into her problems or she will start to percieve you more as buddy than as a potential mate...chicks are wierd like that-

 

[Freeman]

Re: Re: a simple question

Originally posted by Freeman
Well, I think that it depends on your intentions with this chick...if its friendship, which its probably not, then you will want to be there for her unconditionally,if its a relationship you seek then you must be careful...dont go too deep into her problems or she will start to percieve you more as buddy than as a potential mate...there's nothing wrong with trying to cheer her up though-take her out somewhere fun-make her smile and she'll love ya for it...