"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when they say to you that they feel "not stable".. like, random emotions and kind of bad... should we try to talk to them about it, or leave till they get again in a good mood?

because someone else could get the points for helping, I don't know

what's the catch when they are in a bad mood? because I really like to talk about their problems and to help, but that never gave me anything else than the pleasure of the moment... so, it's no good I think
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leave talking about their problems to their girlfriends. Almost all guys suck at it anyways. I know I did before I started taking comm classes.
 
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Originally posted by sam21
when they say to you that they feel "not stable".. like, random emotions and kind of bad... should we try to talk to them about it, or leave till they get again in a good mood?

because someone else could get the points for helping, I don't know

what's the catch when they are in a bad mood? because I really like to talk about their problems and to help, but that never gave me anything else than the pleasure of the moment... so, it's no good I think
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Well, I think that it depends on your intentions with this chick...if its friendship, which its probably not, then you will want to be there for her unconditionally,if its a relationship you seek then you must be careful...dont go too deep into her problems or she will start to percieve you more as buddy than as a potential mate...chicks are wierd like that-
 
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Re: Re: a simple question

Originally posted by Freeman
Well, I think that it depends on your intentions with this chick...if its friendship, which its probably not, then you will want to be there for her unconditionally,if its a relationship you seek then you must be careful...dont go too deep into her problems or she will start to percieve you more as buddy than as a potential mate...there's nothing wrong with trying to cheer her up though-take her out somewhere fun-make her smile and she'll love ya for it...
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