A Simple Question

[CoRVeTTe6699]

Hello this question is going to sound very silly.

i tend to overanalyze things and i have a question burning on my mind - please dont rip on me...BTW, im 18 years old


tomorrow night im going out with a girl to the movies. this is the first time im ever going out with her. i just met her recently at work and spoke to her several times.. she told me to calll her and GAVE me her number so i know shes interested in me.

ill see how it goes and ill decide whether its awkward or not to put my arm around her in the theatre...

but here is my main question... when i drive her home, i am going to kiss her goodnight. do i kiss her on the lips? cheek? make out? give me some advice please

 

[splinterkb]

Depends on how well you click during the night. If you click very well, then a peck on the lips would be fitting. A peck on the cheek would be classier, and would be my choice. Not kissing her at all and hugging her would be acceptable. Just go with the flow.

 

[Fabrizio]

good question,

i'd need to know if you are doing anything before or after the date, but in case u arent well try to initiate a little kino early on the date, like you know waiting in line at the concession stand and such, that way during the movie if you put your arm around her she will be used to you touching her and wont freak out. as far as the kiss goes it really depends on how much she likes you and how she felt about being with you, just walk her to her doorstep after dropping her off, u should have read the bible so you know how to go for the kiss, just try it if you think you can get it, if not then just have patience.

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

before the movie i am gonna try n get to do something where i can sit down and talk to her.. idk maybe get coffee or something i dont really know yet ill see whats around... im gonna try to hold her hand or do some kind of kino.. if i dont get a chance to do that ill just hold her hand during the movie...in my opinion, holding her hand is the minimal thing to do....

tell me how i can enchance my idea, and make it better


as for the kiss at the end of the night when i drop her off (usually i dont walk them to the door) -- - - i dont want her to feel insulted if i just kiss her on the cheek..thats why idk what to (i like this girl)

 

[Interpol]

There's only two options you should consider:

1. If you're ABSOLUTELY SURE the date was a disaster, then just let it go, no kiss, no nothing. But don't use this as an excuse to chicken out. When I say disaster, I mean: she insulted you, she stopped talking to you, she hit on other guys, etc. I mean a complete failure.

2. In every other situation, you go for a kiss, always on the lips. Never kiss her on the cheek. You kiss your grandma on the cheek, not your (possible) girlfriend.

Now no matter what occurs during the date, you should follow one of those two paths. It is ESSENTIAL you go for the kiss, on the lips, or else you just can't know for sure if she's really interested. Remember, the girl will have already decided if she likes you or not by the end of the date - going for the kiss risks nothing!

 

[CoRVeTTe6699]

thank u everyone , we had a great time, everything went well and we had a long goodnight kiss