"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi guys,
First I will start with a little intro about myself ,I have been reading and learning from this site for about a month without being registered, and it helped me a lot actually it changed me now I can see how much of a pathetic loser nice guy I was ,the problem was not with the girls being complex or mean the problem was with me being a loser, I have the look, I am tall, I have an athletic body, a good job but all of these things didn't help me because I lacked confidence , patience and I was 2 nice with girls that I let them step on me and I deserved it!.

Anyway I am changing bit by bit, and to start with the main subject I saw this girl at a concert and I directly went to her talked about 20 min and took her phone number then I called her after 2 days and fixed a date 2 days after the phone call, the date was in a coffee shop and it went smooth and very well , today is the fifth day after the day should I call her now and fix a date on monday or should I use another tactic?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What kind of tactic involves not talking to/meeting her? Waiting until she calls you? You want her? Call her.
 
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GloriouslyInsane said:
What kind of tactic involves not talking to/meeting her? Waiting until she calls you? You want her? Call her.
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Aww, I was gonna say somethin like that...

Ok guys, thread over. You don't gotta sign off, but you can't post here.
 
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there is a little bit of misunderstandings here, my question is should I call her now or wait a little bit thats the core of the question
 
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Nope, no misunderstanding. What would you gain from waiting any longer? Its been 5 days, correct? You should hope the girl hasn't forgotten you. Call soon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It depends on HOW WELL went the first date,seeing how she didn't even text you i would say you should call her.Maybe she's just shy in which case you should call her.5 days is ample time to wait (if you had no other communication).

edit:ace got me this time :p
 
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GloriouslyInsane said:
It depends on HOW WELL went the first date,seeing how she didn't even text you i would say you should call her.Maybe she's just shy in which case you should call her.5 days is ample time to wait (if you had no other communication).

edit:ace got me this time :p
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well she sent me a small email but honestly I wasn't playing I was really busy with work,gym etc.. now I have time I will try to call her.
 
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