"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi guys,
First I will start with a little intro about myself ,I have been reading and learning from this site for about a month without being registered, and it helped me a lot actually it changed me now I can see how much of a pathetic loser nice guy I was ,the problem was not with the girls being complex or mean the problem was with me being a loser, I have the look, I am tall, I have an athletic body, a good job but all of these things didn't help me because I lacked confidence , patience and I was 2 nice with girls that I let them step on me and I deserved it!.

Anyway I am changing bit by bit, and to start with the main subject I saw this girl at a concert and I directly went to her talked about 20 min and took her phone number then I called her after 2 days and fixed a date 2 days after the phone call, the date was in a coffee shop and it went smooth and very well , today is the fifth day after the day should I call her now and fix a date on monday or should I use another tactic?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What kind of tactic involves not talking to/meeting her? Waiting until she calls you? You want her? Call her.
 
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GloriouslyInsane said:
What kind of tactic involves not talking to/meeting her? Waiting until she calls you? You want her? Call her.
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Aww, I was gonna say somethin like that...

Ok guys, thread over. You don't gotta sign off, but you can't post here.
 
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there is a little bit of misunderstandings here, my question is should I call her now or wait a little bit thats the core of the question
 
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Nope, no misunderstanding. What would you gain from waiting any longer? Its been 5 days, correct? You should hope the girl hasn't forgotten you. Call soon.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It depends on HOW WELL went the first date,seeing how she didn't even text you i would say you should call her.Maybe she's just shy in which case you should call her.5 days is ample time to wait (if you had no other communication).

edit:ace got me this time :p
 
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GloriouslyInsane said:
It depends on HOW WELL went the first date,seeing how she didn't even text you i would say you should call her.Maybe she's just shy in which case you should call her.5 days is ample time to wait (if you had no other communication).

edit:ace got me this time :p
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well she sent me a small email but honestly I wasn't playing I was really busy with work,gym etc.. now I have time I will try to call her.
 
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