A simple not stupid question :)

[sam21]

In "The Art Of Seduction" by robert greene, it says that to get the "victim" you have to approach indirectly, creating a false sense of security... starting as a friend and moving gradually to lover.

And I don't know how to mix that with the don juan point explained in this page.

Now when I meet a girl, I don't know what to do... should I act cool and touching her and flirting from the start or should I... i don't know.

But it would be great if you clear my mind. I think it's pretty clear in this topic what I don't get.

 

[sam21]

Maybe one thing is SEDUCING, and another is to be alpha and having girls liking you all the time.

 

[Easy_Tiger]

Interesting.... I'm also wondering about the same issue... I always go with what gives you the most confidence.. If your nervous then you need to kill the nerves before you try anything two forward... Nerves can kill the moment... If your forward from the moment you start communications then it is easier to get to that touching stage.... ****, just test the water and do it... Remember...she is lucky to be on the date with you....

 

[DisobeyThePope]

be indirect IF YOU CAN

if you can't--and you usually can't--it isn't a big deal: show that you're A LITTLE interested in her, but begin qualifying her immediately.