"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A simple not stupid question :)

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In "The Art Of Seduction" by robert greene, it says that to get the "victim" you have to approach indirectly, creating a false sense of security... starting as a friend and moving gradually to lover.

And I don't know how to mix that with the don juan point explained in this page.

Now when I meet a girl, I don't know what to do... should I act cool and touching her and flirting from the start or should I... i don't know.

But it would be great if you clear my mind. I think it's pretty clear in this topic what I don't get. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe one thing is SEDUCING, and another is to be alpha and having girls liking you all the time.

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Interesting.... I'm also wondering about the same issue... I always go with what gives you the most confidence.. If your nervous then you need to kill the nerves before you try anything two forward... Nerves can kill the moment... If your forward from the moment you start communications then it is easier to get to that touching stage.... ****, just test the water and do it... Remember...she is lucky to be on the date with you....
 
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be indirect IF YOU CAN

if you can't--and you usually can't--it isn't a big deal: show that you're A LITTLE interested in her, but begin qualifying her immediately.
 
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