Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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*** A Simple Fashion Tip ***

charlezz

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Ok, let me clarify something that's of fashion.

Be congruent with your image.

Look at people and how they dress. And look at yourself and see if you were to be in their dressing, what does it project? Is it congruent? Get 'previews' from your FASHIONABLE friends (Preferably females), not computer nerds or geeks. If you are the Hip hop kind and got the hip hop look, go for it.
Likewise, if you look smart with a collar long sleeved top, go for it.

But there'r rarecases when some guys look good in all sorts of images. The guy may not be necessary handsome, but he can make it cool and good.

Example for myself. I usually wear a long sleeve shirt usually unbutton 2 top buttons. I put on a huge diamond Stud on my left ear <One side only>. A dark titanium ring on my left index finger and a DKNY watch. Good brown leather shoes. All these fit my skin colour and build with my hairstyle. I have girls and even strangers whom compliment me about how i looked and how much of an Asian idol image i project. That's just simply.... I look smart and damn confident.

Charm&Style's first post on this thread is the way to go. It creates a congruent identity by looking for "yourself" aka ur image.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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d9930380

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One piece of jewellery is good. Like a gold bracelet or a ring. Going all ghetto will just make you look like a tit.
 
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