"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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*** A Simple Fashion Tip ***

charlezz

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Ok, let me clarify something that's of fashion.

Be congruent with your image.

Look at people and how they dress. And look at yourself and see if you were to be in their dressing, what does it project? Is it congruent? Get 'previews' from your FASHIONABLE friends (Preferably females), not computer nerds or geeks. If you are the Hip hop kind and got the hip hop look, go for it.
Likewise, if you look smart with a collar long sleeved top, go for it.

But there'r rarecases when some guys look good in all sorts of images. The guy may not be necessary handsome, but he can make it cool and good.

Example for myself. I usually wear a long sleeve shirt usually unbutton 2 top buttons. I put on a huge diamond Stud on my left ear <One side only>. A dark titanium ring on my left index finger and a DKNY watch. Good brown leather shoes. All these fit my skin colour and build with my hairstyle. I have girls and even strangers whom compliment me about how i looked and how much of an Asian idol image i project. That's just simply.... I look smart and damn confident.

Charm&Style's first post on this thread is the way to go. It creates a congruent identity by looking for "yourself" aka ur image.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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d9930380

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One piece of jewellery is good. Like a gold bracelet or a ring. Going all ghetto will just make you look like a tit.
 
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