"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A side effect of being a DJ: Other girls disrespect my girl

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I've applied what I learned here in real life, and landed myself an amazing girlfriend. So far all is good, she's nuts about me, and I'm in full DJ mode.

But there's an unintended consequence to being a DJ: My girlfriend gets treated like crap by other girls when we go out.

I see them scoping us out. They stare at me and give her murderous looks. They get in her way, try to inconvenience her, and make things as difficult as possible. I get flirted with, the red carpet treatment, and compliments.

This is great for my ego, but I kinda feel bad for my girlfriend. I can see in her face she hates it and feels inferior to the other girls.

I guess the DJ lifestyle is a win/win situation for the guy, but for the girl, it's not a garden of roses....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alle_Gory said:
Tell them to respect your girl of fvck off.
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I do, but that seems to make them even more determined.

Though, in hindsight, this is a problem lots of guys wish they had. ;)
 
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woman are the most jealous people. their just mad and haiting on you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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beatoven said:
I do, but that seems to make them even more determined.

Though, in hindsight, this is a problem lots of guys wish they had. ;)
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Nice. Even better. :up: Everyone wins except for the random chicks.
 
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yeah bro, same thing happened with my ex girlfriend before I moved. my ex was one of those people who was nice to just about everyone and would make friends with all of my friends. One night, my roommates sister disrespected her pretty bad and I didn't even know. I guess when your room mate has been your friend for the past 5 years and is one of the coolest people you know, one wouldn't suspect their sister to be a total complete fvcking ****.
 
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